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Escape to the Big House

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Yesterday, I visited “The Walls” in Jefferson City with Josh Kezer as Josh was being interviewed by 48 Hours for an upcoming story.  Josh spent sixteen years of his life in Missouri’s maximum security prison for a crime he didn’t commit.  About five years ago, the Department of Corrections moved the inmates to a newer facility a few miles east of town and we were able to visit the older one.  It was Josh’s first return to the site and he gave us a walking tour of the place, telling us stories about his life “on the inside”.  This picture was taken outside of 4 House, the oldest building on the grounds.  (I hope to add more about this story at a later time.)

Prior to moving to the new facility, the Missouri State Penitentiary was the oldest, continuously operating prison west of the Mississippi.  At one time (1888), it was said to have the largest inmate population in the world.  In 1967, Time magazine named it the “bloodiest 47 acres in America.”  It was home to some famous criminals such as “Pretty Boy” Floyd, Sonny Liston and James Earl Ray.  Here’s a picture outside of Liston’s cell.  It was in the state pen that he learned to box from a Catholic priest, eventually defeating Floyd Patterson in 1962 for the heavyweight title before losing to Muhammad Ali in 64.

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A Story With ‘The Grip’: The Lost City of Z

Since childhood I’ve been fascinated by stories – be they those of Paul Harvey, which I listened to or read with regularity or those told by my colorful uncles at our family reunions.  Since college and an excellent class on Spanish-Mesoamerican contact (which coincided with the 500th anniversary of Columbus landing in the ‘new world’), I’ve been entranced by stories of conquest and discovery and what happens when individuals and cultures encounter one another.  That interest was deepened after traveling to Peru two years ago and doing more research on the conquest of the Incan Empirimagee. 

A new release which has scratched my itch for stories about contact between cultures is David Grann’s The Lost City of Z: A Tale of Deadly Obsession in the Amazon.  It is a very satisfying read which kept me turning the pages wondering, what will happen next?  A movie, based on the book and starring Brad Pitt, is in pre-production now and slated for release in 2010.  Here is how Grann describes coming to his love of adventure stories:

Every quest, we are led to believe, has a romantic origin.  Yet, even now, I can’t provide a good one for mine.

Let me be clear: I am not an explorer or an adventurer.  I don’t climb mountains or hunt.  I don’t even like to camp.  I stand less than five feet nine inches tall and am nearly forty years old, with a blossoming waistline and thinning black hair.  I suffer from kertoconus – a degenerative eye condition that makes it hard for me to see at night.  I have a terrible sense of direction and tend to forget where I am on the subway and miss my stop in Brooklyn.  I like newspapers, take-out food, sports highlights (record on TiVo), and the air-conditioning on  high.  Given a choice each day between climbing the two flights of stairs to my apartment and riding the elevator, I invariably take the elevator. 

But when I’m working on a story things are different.  Ever since I was young, I’ve been drawn to mystery and adventure tales, ones that had what Rider Haggard called “the grip.”  The first stories I remember being told were about my grandfather Monya.  In his seventies at the time, and sick with Parkinson’s disease, he would sit trembling on our porch in Westport, Connecticut, looking vacantly toward the horizon.  My grandmother, meanwhile, would recount memories of his adventures.

The Things We Lose

Luna Lovegood says to Harry Potter: “my mum always said the things we lose have a way of coming back to us in the end.”

In 1969, a friend of mine was working a summer job in Pennsylvania.  Some of his co-workers said, “Hey Tommy, we’re going to be going to a concert this weekend.  Want to go?”

“Where is it?”

“In a field in upstate New York?”

“Who’s playing?”

“A whole bunch of bands.  Come on, go with us.

“Where are you going to stay?”

“We’re going to camp out on the ground.”

He declined their offer.  At the time, it sounded very inconvenient. Turns out, he missed out on Woodstock, a three-day music festival featuring some of the best bands of the day and remembered as one of the defining moments of rock history.  Last week, I left a gift on Tommy’s front porch, a 40th anniversary commemorative DVD of the event.

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The Gift of Perspective

When the writer Mark Twain (pseudonym for Sam Clemens) was a small child,  the Clemens household had a young slave who was separated from his family. The slave really got on Sam’s nerves through his “constant singing, whistling, yelling, whooping and laughing all day.” Fed up with it, Sal_821e8155cfc84dc3b4141bf16f99c5b0m went to his mother and said he “couldn’t stand it and wouldn’t she please shut him up.” But as Twain remembers, "The tears came into her eyes and her lip trembled, and she said that when poor Sandy sang it showed that he was not remembering his faraway family, but that when he was silent he was thinking of them and I cannot bear it. He will never see his mother again.” Twain adds, “it was a simple speech…but it went home, and Sandy’s noise was not a trouble to me anymore.”

The simple speech of Jane Clemens illustrates the wisdom of the past. The Book of Proverbs reminds us that “love covers a multitude of sins” (Proverbs 10:12). An ancient writer urges us to “be kind for everyone you know carries a heavy load.” His thought was later echoed by the German poet and novelist, Goethe, (1749 – 1832), who wrote: “Treat a person as he appears to be and you make him worse; but treat a person as if he already were what he potentially could be and you make him better.” If we are lacking in imagination and unpracticed in the habits of love, we can grow easily annoyed with the people around us. We may only see the burden that someone is and not the burden that they carry. If, on the other hand, we are able to occasionally step back from a contentious situation and see the person and not simply the problem, we might do a world of good in their life. At the very least, we will do a world of good in our own.

In the World as a Rescue Worker

379x250_101207b1Some of the most compelling drama in all of our storytelling is that of the dramatic rescue.  Whether we are watching headline news or Hollywood’s latest, such stories captivate our attention and inspire our ambition.  No matter how many times we’ve heard one such story, we’re ready to hear another.  The storyline is predictable enough.  Someone is in trouble.  They fall down a well, get lost in a mine shaft, become trapped in a blizzard, are captured by the enemy or stranded at sea. The odds are against their survival.  There seems no way out.  And then, as if out of nowhere, a hero enters the scene and throws out a life jacket, shines a search light, offers a helping hand.  Suddenly, the darkness is not so dark and the nearly dead are home safe and sound.

Not so long ago, I heard another rescue story from a lady at church.  This one was about her daughter-in-law Judy, a 39-year old wife and mother of three.  For over a year, Judy battled an aggressive cancer which spread throughout her body, assiduously attacking her vital organs and shutting down her system.  In her final months, she was severely emaciated, a gaunt shadow of her former self.  After the doctors did what they could do, they sent her back to her small town so she could die at home.  No longer able to come out and play, Judy’s friends decided to go to her.  A few weeks before her final breath, two hundred friends surrounded her home, held hands and began tucking her in to eternity with songs of worship.  While lying on her bed and with the windows open, she found grace and comfort from those friends who came to rescue her – not from death itself, but from the dread and isolation which so often accompany it.

When we hear the term “rescue worker”, we tend to think of those people specially trained to do this type of thing: paramedics, firefighters, or a search and rescue team.  But such a work belongs to each of us as part of the vocation of being human.  Garret Keizer, describes his own calling as a writer: “I am in the world like a rescue worker.  My work requires me to move the debris of Eden using the tools of language.”

Consider carefully what Keizer is saying.  The debris of Eden is all around us.   And part of our purpose here is to move the debris, wherever we find it, with whatever tools we have, at such times as we are able.  The debris around us may be the rubble of ruined relationships, feelings of loss or regret, chronic pain, overwhelming loneliness, anxiety about the future, inner distress, or the deep hurt of being injured by another.  And our work is to rescue people from underneath their crushing load.  The beautiful thing, the surprising thing is that we can carry on this work in any number of creative ways.  We can do it by finding a cure for cancer, opening a therapeutic riding center, teaching a child to read or simply doing our job well.  We can do it by speaking a word of encouragement, offering a friendly smile and showing genuine interest in another person’s well-being.  And we can do it by standing in a circle with friends and singing a song of comfort to those who mourn.

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