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A Step Back in Time

This past year, the last roll of Kodachrome film was given to one of the world’s premier photographers, Steve McCurry.  Over the span of his career, McCurry has taken hundreds of thousands of pictures.  One, in particular, has become an iconic image since it first appeared on the front of a National Geographic magazine in 1985.  Who can forget the picture of this beautiful Afghan girl with piercing green eyes? I can’t count how many different places I’ve seen the image over the past quarter of a century.

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Last year, Kodak quit producing their Kodachrome transparency film and Dwayne’s Photo in Parsons, Kansas, the last Kodak-certified developing lab, stopped processing that particular film.  So McCurry was given the last roll of film to take pictures of any subject he chose in a project for National Geographic. After he took pictures of New York City and India, he personally delivered the film to Parsons, Kansas so it could be processed.  (You can see the photographs he took at this website.)

After reading of this project and the end of an era in photography, it got me thinking of some old Kodachrome slides I had seen years ago in my parents’ home.  I contacted my mother and asked her to locate the slides so I could develop them into prints as a Christmas surprise for my father.  I’m guessing that many of the pictures hadn’t been seen for half a century.  (One set of slides was in a Swisher Sweets cigar box with the price of each cigar a modest six cents.)  I took the slides to Sam’s Club and put the photographs into an album for my father.  When he opened his present, he thought it was just an empty album and he thanked me.  We told him to look inside.  When he did, he was caught off guard as to where they came from.  Seeing the pictures after half a century was a surprise to him, to be sure.  It was also a surprise to me.  I had never seen pictures of my grandmother when she still had black hair. Here are just a few of the pictures from the collection.  They were taken during Dad’s service in the Coast Guard, shortly after he graduated from high school in 1957.

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Uncle Ernie

Since childhood, I’ve been around a cast of colorful characters, on both sides of my family.  Growing up, my father was one of nine children, my mother one of eleven.  For me, that meant, there were bushels of aunts and uncles, boatloads of cousins, and ever fresh batches of stories.  Most all of the stories were memorable.  Some of them even happened.  One of the gifted family storytellers was uncle Ernie.  When he wasn’t telling a stretcher, he was the subject of one.  There was that time he returned to his childhood town after a long absence and the lady tending bar at the local beer joint was sure he was Ernie Tamerius.  She said as much, “You’re Ernie Tamerius, aren’t you?”  He denied it (and probably had good reason to).  She insisted on it.  He denied it again.  Finally he said he knew of Ernie Tamerius, had met him once or twice, but the last he had heard, “ol’ Ernie got religion and is a Padre out in Colorado somewhere.” 

And then there was that time he came home from rabbit hunting and couldn’t get into his house.  As the Irish are wont to say, “some drink had been taken”, which could have influenced his decision, of course, and he decided to shoot the door off the lock, just like he had seen them do in the old movies.  Sure enough, he hit the lock.  But he also hit his mother-in-law. In the hip.  (In the westerns, the mother-in-law didn’t stand behind the door, you see.)   Fortunately, both recovered from the wild west, she in the hospital and he in the Lansing Correctional Institute.

I remember visiting visiting Uncle Ernie in Pueblo, Colorado as a little boy.  We were all sitting on the front porch when he decided to feed the neighborhood mutt that he didn’t much care for.  He said, “come here boy” and when the dog came near, Ernie fed him some Copenhagen from his tobacco pouch. That poor dog spent the rest of the day burying his snout in the yard and trying to get the snuff out of his system. 

Uncle Ernie was laid to rest a few weeks back, like the Bible says, an “old man and full of days”.  He was 87 years old.  An online obituary remembers:

Ernie proudly served his country with the 3rd Marine Division during World War II in the Pacific. Ernie loved his adopted hometown of Pueblo. He was a brick mason whose craftsmanship can be seen on many buildings across Southern Colorado. He had friends from many walks of life and will be missed.

Scanning the web, I found this photograph of Uncle Ernie with former Colorado governor Roy Roper who was looking to rope in some voters among the undecided. The photograph appeared on the front page of Denver Post back in 2008.  Knowing Uncle Ernie (in the picture, he has the hat on) I’m sure the conversation was quite entertaining.

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Rest in peace, Uncle Ernie. 

Memories of a Son and our National Pastime

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Jonathan would have been fourteen today.

The start of baseball season and the discussion of Albert Pujols’ future with the Cardinals, got me thinking about my son’s first trip to a professional baseball game. I had four tickets four rows behind home plate for a Sunday night nationally televised contest between our beloved St. Louis Cardinals and the powerhouse Atlanta Braves.  My father, brother, niece and I were seated in the “big dog” seats at the old Busch Stadium and Jonathan was watching the game from my lap.  In the green seats, you get pampered with goodies. Instead of going to the concession stands, the ushers come to you.  You fill out a menu request and they serve you food and drinks until you’re ready to explode like a home run fireworks display.

When I was given these tickets, they came with very specific instructions from the generous donors: “don’t be like those people that are on their phone the whole game, because you’ll be on television every single pitch.”  I happily accepted the terms with special permission to make one or two phone calls during the game.

I called Jonathan’s grandfather and told him to find the game on ESPN.  I had Jonathan take his shirt off.  I said, “Jonathan, look out there at the pitcher and flex your muscles for papa.”  Little Hercules complied and did his part with astonishing aplomb.  And I heard his papa’s loud voice on the other end of the phone: “Oh, looky there! There’s my grandson!  Slim, come in here and look at your grandson on t.v.!”  image

Jonathan’s first professional baseball game was one to remember.  Rafael Furcal completed an unassisted triple play against the Cardinals, an unusual feat in the history of baseball. And one future Hall of Famer, a young Albert Pujols, hit an 8th innning home run off of another future Hall of Famer, the veteran John Smoltz.  That key hit extended Albert’s hitting streak and produced the go-ahead run.  The Cardinals won the game 3-2.

Festival of Faith & Writing

Anna I returned last night from a trip to Grand Rapids, Michigan and the Festival of Faith & Writing at Calvin College.  Anna made the trip with me back in 2004 and, judging by the weight of her travel bag on the return flight home, her interest in books has grown over the years (she needs either a Kindle or a Himalayan sherpa).  

This year, we heard Wally Lamb, Thomas Lynch, Eugene Peterson, Mary Karr, Kate DiCamillo, Rhoda Janzen, Scott Cairns, Mark Perry and Richard Rodriguez. 

Here a few pictures from the trip, including Anna with  Avi, auhor of Crispin and Poppy and Kate Dicamillo, author of The Tale of Desperaux and Because of Winn Dixie

Ready for College and a Chance Meeting with Mr. Jefferson

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City of the Sun

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At long last, I finally visited the Cahokia Indian Mounds in Illinois, just east of St. Louis.  Anna wanted to shop for a dress to wear to her first formal so we made a day trip over spring break. 

Shortly after Christmas, I read Timothy Pauketat’s new book, Cahokia: Ancient America’s Great City on the Mississippi.  The author, a professor of anthropology at the University of Illinois, tells the story of America’s most prominent prehistoric civilization.  At its height, Cahokia boasted a population of twenty thousand people with some 120 earthen mounds constructed to symbolize their worldview.  The base of their main temple (Monk’s Mound) was 14 acres, larger than that of the Great Pyramid of Egypt and the Pyramid of the Sun in Mexico. 

One of the items that captured my interest in the book is how important public sport was among the Cahokians.  At the center of the temple plaza was a field for playing chunkey.  Crowds would gather from the region to watch as athletes competed in this ancient game which made use of a rolling clay disc and spears.  Contestants would try to throw a spear at a stone that was rolling across a baked clay field covered with fine sand.  (Pauketat suggests you think of playing horseshoes with both the shoes and the ringer in motion.) He adds that the “Cahokians may have won the hearts and minds of distant people through this game, which was more than a way of passing time.”  

Like the Aztecs and the Incas further south, the Cahokians practiced human sacrifice.  They traded in goods with far away tribes, as evidenced by the presence of marine shell beads, shark’s teeth and various minerals that were not native to the region.  They encoded their cosmology into the environmental design of their civilization. 

One of the highlights of the trip was that one of the boys found a chunkey disc in the grass.  It wasn’t authentic, however.  I purchased it in the gift shop while they were not looking.  And I then placed the replica on the ground while we paused to take pictures.  Their archaeological euphoria lasted for a few brief moments before they noticed the initials of the craftsman on the reverse side.  I’m just glad it didn’t say, “Made in China”, or I would have had to make up a story about how the Chinese beat Columbus to the “new world”. 

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The Greatest Game I Ever Saw – Steroids or Not

Yesterday, Mark McGwire finally came clean and confessed to using steroids during the 90s.  The return of McGwire to the news, after years of being out of the spotlight, has reminded me of the greatest game I ever saw.

In the summer of 1998, I was fortunate enough to watch McGwire hit home run #62, the line-drive shot that broke Roger Maris’ previous record for home runs in a season.  As Tom Verducci wrote for Sports Illustrated that summer:

The home run is America—appealing to its roots of rugged individualism and its fascination with grand scale. Americans gape at McGwire’s blasts the same way they do at Mount Rushmore, Hoover Dam and the Empire State Building. "We have," Cubs manager Jim Riggelman said before Tuesday’s game, "a fascination with power."

That summer was magical.  McGwire was on a torrid pace to break one of sports’ most coveted records and one of the longest standing ones.  In the second half of the baseball season, we spent every summer night rushing to the television when McGwire came up to bat.  If we were barbequing, we went inside.  If out to dinner, we joined the rest of the patrons to catch what was going on.  Regular scheduled programs were interrupted for a live look-in on the individual at-bats of McGwire and Sammy Sosa.image

Tickets became increasingly harder to come by as fans were flocking to the stadium in the hopes of catching a piece of history. 

My wife at the time, Kris, knew how much I wanted to see a game at Busch Stadium and one day she called me and said, “Hey, I want to do something for your birthday.  Can you be free Sunday night or Tuesday night?” 

I told her I wouldn’t likely be free on Sunday evening and then she said, “Well, I might as well just tell you, I’m here at Schnucks and I’m trying to get two tickets for us to see a Cardinals game.”

“Kris, that would be awesome but I’m pretty sure they’re all sold out.”

“Well, the lady here says she can get us two seats but the only catch is that she doesn’t have two seats side-by-side.  She has individual seats but the seats are one row in front of the other.”

Through the phone, I could hear the Schnucks’ customer service representative say, “Now honey, I can’t promise you these tickets will be here in the next few minutes.  They’re going fast.”

I told Kris, “By all means, grab them.”  And so she did.  We had tickets for a game the following week, on Tuesday, September 8, 1998 against the Chicago Cubs.  Friends of ours had tickets the day before, a game in which Big Mac hit the record-tying home run in the first inning.  I nervously watched the rest of the game hoping that he wouldn’t hit it number 62.  Fortunately, he only got one that afternoon.

The following day Kris and I made our way to St. Louis.  When we were on the Metro Rail, the conductor said, “Mark my word, folks, today Big Mac will hit #62”.  The atmosphere outside the stadium was electric.  We found out that tickets were selling for $400.  Kris was tempted to sell hers and I told her if she did, I’d meet her after the game! 

We got to our seats and we were near the left-field foul pole.  There were nine-seats in our rows, and Kris and I had the middle seat in both.  The guy next to me said, “Now, I don’t normally do this but if Big Mac breaks the record tonight don’t be surprised if I give you a hug.  We’re all family tonight.”

There was a buzz in the air when the game started.  The Cardinals were playing their hated rivals, the Cubbies from Chicago, with people all over the world watching the game. Roger Maris’ family was at the game, seated near the Cardinals dugout.  Flash bulbs were going off every time McGwire came up to bat. 

In the bottom of the 4th inning, McGwire turned on a first-pitch fastball from Steve Traschel and sent it just over the left field wall, right below where we were seated.  The record home run was his shortest shot of the year, traveling 341 feet.  Pandemonium ensued.  While McGwire circled the bases, people were jumping up and down.  Strangers hugged and high-fived each other.  They stopped play for around ten minutes or so and I ran out to the concourse to snatch up a few souvenirs from the vendors.  Baseballs marked, “I Was There” were selling for $20.   After the game, Commissioner Bud Selig was on hand to honor the historic achievement.  When we left the stadium, commemorative editions of the St. Louis Post-Dispatch were already for sale. (That night also happened to be the first major league game of J.D. Drew, who now plays for the Boston Red Sox.  He came into left field and had his first two at-bats that evening.) We stayed in St. Louis late into the night to take in the celebration before eventually returning to Columbia.

I couldn’t imagine a better birthday present for a sports fan, especially one who had cheered for the Cardinals since childhood.  I told Kris it would be equivalent to getting her much coveted tickets to see Mikhail Baryshnikov perform live in some fantastic venue. 

It was an unforgettable night in the history of sports.

The Dog Days of Winter

One week ago, our family entered the world of dog ownership by obtaining a vizsla puppy. The children had been asking for a dog for the past few years, and like Jesus’ parable of the persistent widow, the children were finally heard because of their importunity. The vizsla breed is a Hungarian short-haired pointer that has only been in the States since the 1950s. I was looking for a energetic, athletic dog that had a good temperament for children and was friendly to allergy-sufferers. A friend mentioned to me this breed and researching it a bit more I was hooked. Outside the house, the breed has a hunter’s nose and alertness; inside the house, the vizsla is a lapdog who loves to be close to you.

The children learned of their puppy on Christmas morning as Elizabeth opened up a dog crate and Jonathan opened up a leash. Anna and Micah received dog books describing the breed and pictures of the litter and some background information on the pedigree. Sadie’s parents, Pete and Penny, earned junior hunter titles a few years back. For now, we’re working on crate training and potty training (sub zero temperatures and five inches of snow are a wonderful incentive to doing your business quickly, by the way).

The Riddles of a Child

Elly sent this to her grandparents and received the correct answer back from my father.  I’m not sure what prize the correct answer won but I’m sure my parents were happy to see that there was a participation prize for all contestants.

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Tropical Love

Somewhere in Jamaica right now, my brother has his toes in the sand and is sipping a drink of happiness while looking through dark shades on a jewel blue ocean.  He is probably not listening to the Zac Brown Band, but he is newly married and celebrating life with his bride.  Congratulations to Troy and Heidi!

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